Caffection. The word says it all. Try saying 'Caffection' without at least a hint of a smile, and a feeling of warmth toward your mate. It's impossible. What we believe is, that a main ingredient in every successful relationship, that is caffected ones, is the willingness and ability to let go, listen to the 'hints' that we all hear but sometimes actively ignore, and allow those signals to guide our interactions with people we love. Ever wonder why baking a confection almost demands a smile, maybe even a whistle or hum as you work? It's not because you intend to pleasure yourself with the result. It's the feeling of satisfaction you'll get seeing others' reactions. You wouldn't bake a cake without eggs; why try to build a relationship without caffection?