Here's a great way to tell whether or not you're caffected: your spouse anticipates your birthday, makes reservations at the most shee-shee restaurant in town, takes care of all the details, and in the car you go. When you stroll into the place, there on the table, waiting for the birthday person, is a beautiful arrangement of orchids--just like we used to have in the house all the time in Hawaii.
Thank you, dear one. Be mine forever. They're gorgeous--and so are you. I love you.