Monday, July 21, 2008


That's what Caffection provides, in every sense.  In a Caffected relationship, infidelity is a vague concept, an unfortunate social reality 'out there' that always indicates a traumatic shortcoming in a relationship.  Exclusivity is a lot more than sexual fidelity, though; it's physical, emotional, social, certainly financial these days, and psychological.  In exclusivity there's a degree of safety--not just in terms of physical ease with a mate, but of course in terms of our health, too.  What it all boils down to is that exclusivity and fidelity, and therefore Caffection have never been so critically important.  
The positive side of all this is simple: Caffection allows us to be completely at ease, to be joyful with our mates, to laugh easily, to touch without fear, and to trust with a depth of understanding that cannot be easily described.  There's a reason that rich, lush, exotic experiences are referred to as exclusive.  They leave nothing to be desired, wanted, or needed, but instead satisfy totally.  Caffected love is like that.  May everyone have Caffection one day.
Today in History: Confederate forces win first Manassas, or Bull Run  1861
Famous birthday: Yusaf Islam, Cat Stephens, 60's singer 1947.

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