We were once told you only had to do two things every single day: find joy and breathe. The breathing part is a given but the joy, well that's another story. Initially we said, "Find Joy?" However once we tuned into what brought us joy and made an effort to create joyful experiences our lives began to change for the better. Begin to seek one positive in every situation. It's true there is something good, miniscule as it may be, in everything. Take the time to praise each other, give thanks and appreciation, and help one another find the good in seemingly bad situations. You'll grow as a couple and draw other positive couples to your circle of friends.