Debbie Ford, New York Times best selling author wrote a book titled The Best Year of your Life. This 2005 book was most responsible for the pursuit and creation of our website, because we both believe that, in addition to visualizing and announcing our goals and aspirations, we must be willing to believe that they are indeed possible. Living on Kauai at the time, and in-between careers, the book was a gift, and indispensable in our quest for something bigger than ourselves. Everyone needs a big WHY, and this book helped us focus on ours. We propose the outrageous concept of marriage between best friends, and marriage equality for everyone. Why? Because the world is a barren enough place, and love is the only way out of this dilemma.