Here's an idea. Plan 30 minutes a day with your mate for sacred time, half an hour set aside with the cell phones off (OFF-not on vibrate), E-mail, Facebook, YouTube, FaceSpace, MyDate, SpaceBook, TV, iPod, radio, DVD, VCR, ETK (Electronic Time Killer--otherwise known as your computer), and every other distraction unable to intrude. Now just talk to each other. Imagine it! The focus this will bring allows all manner of good things to occur. Try it; you'll like it.