Positive Attitude. A forever attribute that comes in handy in baseball (Go Cubbies), in marriage and in life. As a couple, we take turns being the cheerleader. We know our positive outlook on life is critically important, and has sustained us through some challenging times. Great things begin to happen in your life as you focus on being a caffected couple, and one of those is the people you'll attract. Think about how fun it is to be at a party with folks who are engaging, who take an interest in how you are and what's going on in your life. You enjoy their company and are naturally attracted to them. It's fun to have other caffected couples to hang out with on a regular basis.